For self-payers

Psychotherapy as a self-payer: within days, not months

Private psychotherapy without health insurance, like in a private practice, only by video. Find the right licensed therapist and start within days. Discreet, no insurer record, €170 per session.

  • Licensed therapists only
  • Appointment within days
  • Free initial consultation
  • Discreet, no insurer record

What does psychotherapy as a self-payer mean?

Psychotherapy as a self-payer means you settle your treatment directly with your therapist, with no health insurance involved. Treatment is with licensed psychotherapists and is billed according to the German fee schedules for medical and psychotherapeutic services (GOÄ/GOP), exactly as in a private practice. The therapy itself is the same. Only the way it is paid for differs.

For many people this is the fastest and simplest way into therapy. You need no application, no approval and no referral. You decide with whom and when you start.

Benefits

Your benefits as a self-payer

Why self-payers start therapy faster, more discreetly and with more freedom at Therapy Lift.

Fast, no waiting

No months-long wait for an insurance-covered place.

  • Start within days
  • Free initial consultation
  • Online by video

Discreet, no record

No diagnosis in your insurer’s file.

  • No record at your health insurer
  • No application, no approval
  • No invoice to an insurer

Free choice and quality

You choose who suits you.

  • Licensed therapists only
  • Choose your own therapist
  • Nationwide, like a practice nearby

What does psychotherapy cost as a self-payer?

As a self-payer, a 50-minute session costs €170, billed according to the German fee schedule for psychotherapists (GOP), exactly as in a private practice. There are no hidden surcharges, and costs are only incurred after a session. The initial consultation is free.

  1. Step 1

    Start treatment

    With a licensed therapist, online by video.

  2. Step 2

    Receive the invoice

    Billed transparently according to GOP, €170 per session.

  3. Step 3

    Pay yourself

    No insurer, no application. You pay directly and start right away.

A full breakdown of every way to fund therapy, from statutory insurance through private insurance to paying yourself, is in our detailed overview: What does psychotherapy cost? (in German)

How to start as a self-payer

  1. 1

    Matching

    Answer ten short questions and receive suggestions for therapists who suit you professionally and personally.

  2. 2

    Free initial consultation

    Get to know your preferred therapist in a no-obligation call of up to 15 minutes.

  3. 3

    Start therapy

    If it is a fit, you usually begin within a few days, by video, wherever you are.

A detailed explanation of the process is under How it works . How online psychotherapy works and what makes a video session is on our overview page .

4.9 out of 5

Experiences of self-payers

„I did not want a record at my insurer and did not want to wait for months. Within a few days I had an initial consultation and could start.“
Self-payer from Cologne
„The costs were clear from the start and video therapy fits well into my day. I could choose for myself who suited me.“
Self-payer from Stuttgart

Quality and data protection

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Conversations and content stay private.

Hosted in Germany

The platform runs on servers in Germany.

Self-payer, statutory or private insurance?

Which route suits you depends on how you are insured and how quickly you want to start.

Self-payer

You cover the costs yourself and in return start immediately, with free choice of therapist and no approval process.

Statutory insurance

Insurance-funded therapy is free of charge but often comes with long waits. If you do not want to wait, you start as a self-payer.

Privately insured or entitled to Beihilfe

Costs are reimbursed depending on your plan. More on our page for the privately insured.

For the privately insured

Frequently asked questions

Frequently asked questions about psychotherapy as a self-payer

Costs, discretion and getting started: the answers you need before paying for therapy yourself.

As a self-payer, a 50-minute session costs €170. Billing follows the German fee schedule for psychotherapists (GOP). The initial consultation is free.

Start your therapy without waiting

Answer ten questions, find the therapist who suits you, and book a no-obligation initial consultation.